Boys and relationships

When I was a little girl I watched all the Disney movies. Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Aladdin and well you get the picture. The love stories that feature in these 'only happen in fairy tales' but you never really find that out until you experience relationships yourself. It never goes as straight forward as what we see in the fairy tales mentioned. With them they see their prince at a ball, dance with them once and then they get married. No in this day and age there's so many 'rules'. You can't get straight into a relationship, there's just this weird texting malarkey that goes on for months and then you get to a point where either you're really bored of the person and want to move on or you're really confused as to where you stand with them.
I always wanted to be Ariel and have my Eric but that's just not how it goes. In real life, for me anyways, love is a bit of a disaster. I either 1) embarrass myself (which is easily done) 2) fall for absolute jerks and 3) in my case not be good enough for the 'populars'. The added pressure on teenagers to look perfect all the time builds on the pressure of relationships as well because you start to look at the girls around you as competition and start to compare yourselves to them. Please don't ever do this! I started to and it never works out well; you are you and you can't be anyone else. The one thing we are all good at is being ourselves so embrace it!

I don't mind being single and to be honest I have less problems when I'm single but the pressure on us to have that experience with boys is building. Every time I see some of my friends they ask if I'm speaking to anyone new and if I am they need to know all of the details. After while of saying 'no, I'm still not speaking to anyone' it gets kind of embarrassing especially when a lot of people around you have relationships. I'm starting to feel like I'm being left behind.

Why can't I be in a fairy tale? Marry my Prince charming and live happily ever after?

What do you guys think?
Am I alone in thinking these things?

Thanks for reading that ramble, just something that was on my mind
Love,
LMR xx

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